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I really hate shit like this.
Yes, we all want the perfect guy. That’s fine. We have needs.
But to be so specific?
And I know some of you will be like, “Oh, no one really takes those seriously,” but that’s not true.
Some girls really get mad if their boyfriends doesn’t “hug them from behind” or — worse — “notice when they’re upset.”
Every girl wants a guy to just notice, don’t they? I’ve actually seen lists like this that say, “Know that when I say ‘I’m ok,’ I’m really not.” Wouldn’t that be great if guys were mind readers… I bet guys are looking for a girl that will “just tell me she’s not ok rather than expecting me to figure it out on my own.”
I mean, seriously. We’re all just people.
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jacksthoughtsontheworld asked:
8, 36, 54
8. Describe your crush.
Tall, dark and handsome. For real. Oh, also, ridiculously stubborn. He drives me crazy in both good and bad ways.
36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?
I have had a crush on (almost) every one of my guy friends at one point or another. I dated my best friend for about 4 years, but things took a terrible turn. However, while we didn’t work as a couple, we are still best friends.
54. Is there someone you will never forget?
I never forget anyone. Every person I’ve ever had any form of a relationship with (romantic or otherwise) will always be in my memory. I can’t remember what I ate for breakfast yesterday, but I can tell you a story I have with probably everyone on my Facebook no matter where they popped up for me in the last 28 years.
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- 1. Are looks important in a relationship?
- 2. Are relationships ever worth it?
- 3. Are you a virgin?
- 4. Are you in a relationship?
- 5. Are you in love?
- 6. Are you single this year?
- 7. Can you commit to one person?
- 8. Describe your crush
- 9. Describe your perfect mate
- 10. Do you believe in love at first sight?
- 11. Do you ever want to get married?
- 12. Do you forgive betrayal?
- 13. Do you get jealous easily?
- 14. Do you have a crush on anyone?
- 15. Do you have any piercings?
- 16. Do you have any tattoos?
- 17. Do you like kissing in public?
- 20. Do you shower every day?
- 21. Do you think someone has feelings for you?
- 22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
- 23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?
- 24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years?
- 25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year?
- 26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?
- 27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?
- 28. Have you ever been cheated on?
- 29. Have you ever cheated on someone?
- 30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body?
- 31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl?
- 32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love?
- 33. Have you ever had sex with a man?
- 34. Have you ever had sex with a woman?
- 35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
- 36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?
- 37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?
- 38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
- 39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?
- 40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?
- 41. Have you had sex so far this year?
- 42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
- 43. How long was your longest relationship?
- 44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?
- 45. How many people did you kiss in 2011?
- 46. How many times did you have sex last year?
- 47. How old are you?
- 48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?
- 49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?
- 50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?
- 51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?
- 52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?
- 53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are?
- 54. Is there someone you will never forget?
- 55. Share a relationship story.
- 56. State 8 facts about your body
- 57. Things you want to say to an ex
- 58. What are five ways to win your heart?
- 59. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)
- 60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?
- 61. What is the first thing you notice in someone?
- 62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?
- 63. What is your definition of “having sex”?
- 64. What is your definition of cheating?
- 65. What is your favourite foreplay routine?
- 66. What is your favourite roleplay?
- 67. What is your idea of the perfect date?
- 68. What is your sexual orientation?
- 69. What turns you off?
- 70. What turns you on?
- 71. What was your kinkiest wet dream?
- 72. What words do you like to hear during sex?
- 73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?
- 74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?
- 75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?
- 76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?
- 77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?
- 78. What’s your dirtiest secret?
- 79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why?
- 80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?
- 81. Who are five people you find attractive?
- 82. Who is the last person you hugged?
- 83. Who was your first kiss with?
- 84. Why did your last relationship fail?
- 85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet?
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It’s good to know when to back off and let someone breathe.
It’s not good to know when to back off… and then don’t.
Have some damn self control.
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“You’re awfully sarcastic tonight,” he says and tries to look jokingly wounded but I know he’s really not pleased with me.
“Sorry,” I respond. I know when he says that I’ve crossed a line. He says “sarcastic,” but I’m fully aware that’s code for “a bitch.” I tell him I can’t help it, which is kind of true. I feel terrible, but I can’t tell him why I’m really doing it.
It’s always been a bit of a habit of mine, but I wasn’t always really a bitch. It’s grown into that over time. I’ve been taught to be a bitch by the guys who listen to me lay all my cards out and give me nothing in return. So I don’t owe you assholes anything.
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Hey there! So i need some help with this, could you tell me if this sounds like this guy likes me, cause im clueless!(: So basically he's told other people i was pretty and brought me up a few times at a school game to his friends. At the same football game when i would walk by i would catch him looking at me a bit (i dont know if he held the stare cause im shy and look away quickly) What's your opinion on this? and also how do i talk to him? thanks!! - Lindsey
Hi! It definitely sounds like he’s interested. Guys tend to not talk about girls with their friends unless it’s worth their time to talk about them. I don’t want to give you false hope and I don’t have enough information to determine one way or the other. I don’t know your current relationship with him (if any) or in what context he was talking about you to his friends.
I think you should talk to him, definitely. Maybe invite him and some of his friends to hang out with you and some of your friends. Find out something you have in common (a favorite band, even a favorite class). Ask him how he got into it, what he likes about it, whatever. If there’s a connection between you, the conversation will likely build itself from there.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
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But he helped me through a lot. He helped me to stop cutting and saved my life so many times. And what if im not that stong without him? Hes my bestfriend as well and idk how its going to be if i dont have someone to talk about my problems? On the other side i know i have to recover and maybe it will be easier without him, because getting hurt again would be to much and im pretty sure i will. But im so lonely right now and just miss and need him.
I promise you you are strong enough without him. And moving on without him, you will become stronger. Another person should never be your strength, for both yours and their sake. No person is built to be able to handle the weight of their own lives and someone else’s. It’s not fair to either of you. If you ever want to get back with him, you need to be able to support yourself first. A relationship should never have one person carrying more weight than the other. Both need to be able to bear their own to have a solid foundation to stand on, or at least be working to bear their own weight. (I do understand there are many times when one needs to lean on the other, but the fear of falling without the other there is no reason to ever stay in a relationship.)
You must also consider the fact that if he’s been so helpful and supportive up until this point, what does it say about him that he broke your trust after everything you’ve been through together? You deserve more. You deserve someone that will stand by you when you’re struggling as best they can.
You can recover without him. You need to focus on yourself and build the strength so that you can have a strong, healthy and supportive relationship, be it with him or anyone else.
For the time being, you can talk to me if you feel you have no one else. I would prefer that over knowing you’re depending on someone that has disrespected you.
Hang in there. I promise things will get better. You can do this <3
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What do you do when you have strong feelings for two people.. and one of them is your boyfriend. :/
This is very common and bound to happen to everyone at some point in their lives. I’ve definitely battled this before.
Consider the following questions: Who do you feel the most comfortable with? Who do you trust more? Who can you truly be yourself with? Who treats you better and gives you more of what you need, both physically and emotionally?
If you’re struggling to answer these questions, consider taking a break from things with your boyfriend. If you continue to date him while having such strong feelings for someone else, it’ll eat at you and eventually effect your relationship with him. If you wait too long, he may end up making your decision for you. Either way, it’s not fair to him that you’ve committed yourself to him but are not fully present when you’re with him.
It sounds like you need to sit with yourself for a little while and do some thinking. I have a habit of making a run for the opposite coast when I really need to think things through. I wouldn’t entirely recommend that, but try to get away (even if it’s just to a local nature reserve or some place safe and secluded) for a day. It’s important to take yourself out of your normal, every day surroundings to sort your thoughts. Otherwise, feelings and thoughts you receive from your usual environment can blur your decision-making process.
Good luck <3
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